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Biography
The Rev. Dr. Tony Campolo is Professor of
Sociology at Eastern College, St. David's Pennsylvania. He spends
considerable time dealing with the challenges that face the poor in our
inner-cities and the poor in the Third World nations around the world.
He is also the author of many challenging books and the loving pastor of
an inter-racial, inner-city church in West Philadelphia. [Biographical
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"Visionaries and Dreamers for God"
Two things determine what a person is
and who a person is. Those two things are these: where a person comes
from and where a person is going. Emile Durkheim, one of the great
sociologists of all time, said that in order to know where we come from
we need traditions and rituals. And he was big on outlining the role of
traditions and rituals. He said, “The more traditions that a group has,
the more rituals that a group has, the higher the level of solidarity,
the higher the level of unity of that group.”
Certainly that is true of family life. Just having come through a
holiday season, I know that to be true because holiday times are best
when they are filled with rituals and traditions.
Our family is big on rituals and traditions. As our children were
growing up, there was always a special way of celebrating Christmas. The
children would always get up at our house at six o’clock in the morning.
Now, I’m a Baptist, and Baptists do not believe that God is up at six
o’clock in the morning, so we always told the kids that they could get
the stuff out of the stockings which we hung in their rooms and play
with that, but they could never come out of the bedroom and get the good
stuff under the tree until we got up.
About eight o’clock, we came out of “the sweet arms of Morpheus” —
that’s sophisticated talk from back east, and we would go into the
living room and right through the living room into the kitchen and we
would eat breakfast. Then they would say, “How do you get your kids to
eat breakfast on Christmas morning?”
The answer to that is simple, “We’ve always done it that way!” Rituals
and traditions are like that. You always do things the same way. Then we
would go in and we would open the presents. Bart, the youngest, would
get a present, read the label, see for whom it was intended, and deliver
the present. That person would open it, comment on it. That present
would be passed around, and everybody would comment on it. Then it was
time for present #2.
You say, “It must have taken you all morning to open the gifts.”
Indeed it did.
You say, “That’s terrible.”
No, what’s terrible is allowing the child to jump into those presents,
tear away the paper, and in a few minutes Christmas is over. I mean,
ritual draws it out. It makes it delicious. It heightens the drama. As
you sit there wondering “for whom is the big one?”
In the afternoon we would always visit my parents and my wife’s parents.
You say, “Always?” ALWAYS. It’s a ritual — we always do it that way. You
say, “Why?” Well, that’s obvious. When I’m old and my wife is old, we
want our children to visit us, and the best way to make sure that is
happening is to make it into a ritual. When Christmas rolls around for
them, if they don’t visit us, they’ll be so uncomfortable, they’ll be
miserable. They’re like Pavlovian dogs — “It’s Christmas, we have to go
to visit the parents.”
Thanksgiving is the most ritualistic day in American life, is it not? On
Thanksgiving, we all sit down at the same places, we all say the same
things. Listen to this — we eat exactly the same food. And the comments
are always the same. “Great stuffing! What’s in it?”
Same thing as last year, idiot. I mean nothing changes.
But perhaps you have this scene to rehearse. Your son or your daughter
is away at school, and there is a call on the telephone about three
weeks before Thanksgiving, and you say, “Hey, John, looking forward to
seeing you in two more weeks — Thanksgiving. You’ll be home.”
And there’s a long pause. He says, “Well, Dad, that’s why I called. Some
of the guys got together and it’s been tense, it’s been tough up here at
school, and we thought we’d go to Fort Lauderdale for the break, you
know, and take in some rays.”
There’s a long pause and at the other end of the extension is the wife
who says, “But, John, we always have Thanksgiving together.”
And he says, “You act like it’s the end of the world!”
Well, maybe, in fact, this dear mother hasn’t read Emile Durkheim, but
it is the end of her world and she knows it. Because with the breaking
of the ritual, something is lost. We will all be there. We will all sit
in the same places. We will all make the same crippled comments. The
same food, the same turkey, the same stuffing will be there, but about
half-way through the meal, a pall of silence will fall over the family
and someone is likely to say, “You know, it’s just not the same.” And
you know, it will never be the same again. Rituals are precious.
They have to be broken, of course. The group has to come to an end so
new families can start. We don’t want our children tied to our families
forever but it still hurts because rituals are precious things. They
remind us of things that must not be forgotten.
Indeed, religious experience is partly ritual, isn’t it? It’s partly
ritual. That’s why, if you’re Jewish, you know there is such a thing
called the Seder Feast. I taught at the University of Pennsylvania, and
the students who even were atheists would always come and want to borrow
my children. If they were Jewish, they wanted to borrow my children for
the Seder Feast. And dumb me — I would lend them out. I say “dumb”
because I could have rented them. And I would say to these students,
“Students, you don’t even believe in God,” and they would say, “Yes, but
we’re Jewish.” And the rituals kept them Jewish. Tevya understood this.
Remember in that wonderful musical, “Fiddler on the Roof” — he said,
“Tradition — because of our traditions we know who we are, where we come
from, and what our lives are all about.”
Our religious experience is partly tradition and partly ritual. When
Jesus asked us to remember his death, he wrapped it up in a ritual and
made it a tradition. And every time I break bread or drink of the cup, I
remember his words, “Do this in remembrance of me. As oft as ye eat this
bread and drink this cup, you remember my death until I come again.” The
ritual reminds us of what should not be forgotten.
Then there is the ritual of baptism. We have all kinds of denominations.
I always like to joke because I’m a Baptist and we baptize one way and
you baptize another way. It’s OK — you baptize your way, and we baptize
His way, and it works out alright in the end. The important thing,
however, is that baptism reminds us that when we accept Jesus as
personal Savior and Lord, we begin a whole new life.
Perhaps you don’t have enough ritual in your family, and if you don’t
have enough ritual, you will have children who will forget what must not
be forgotten. You will have children who will slip away from those
things that need to be maintained with security.
Do you have family devotions in your family? “The family that prays
together, stays together.” You say, “It is just a ritual. Surely,
rituals aren’t that important.” Rituals are what hold us together, what
give us solidarity.
As a sociologist, I’ve been intrigued with observing religious groups.
Obviously, the Jewish people have greater rituals than Christians, but
among the Christians, the Roman Catholics have more rituals than
Protestants. Have you noticed that? And on the way to church as a boy, I
always noticed that that’s the way it was. I always noticed that there
were more people going to the Catholic church than to my Baptist church.
And I would always ask my mother, “Why do the Baptists not go to church,
and the Catholics go to church in such numbers?”
The traditional Protestant answer always was, “They go out of fear.”
Of course, that doesn’t work.
The truth of the matter is that the Catholics understand ritual, and
that’s what held the Roman Catholic Church together for so many years —
the mass, the ritual. You say, “Is it all so important?”
Yes, we have to be reminded of things. So many things are quickly
forgotten. Do you have prayers that you say like The Lord’s Prayer? Are
there prayers when you put the children to bed? Are there times in your
life when there are family devotions?
You say, “These are rituals. They aren’t important.” They are important
because without rituals and traditions we do not know from whence we
come. We do not know the values of our past. Rituals remind us of
yesterday.
Whenever I would be confronted with some students who wanted to get
married, they would always give me the same bit. They would come to me
when I was teaching at the University and say, “We want to get married,”
and I would marry them for free before class. And they would always make
up their own vows. And I’d say, “If you make up your own vows, I do not
marry you.”
And they’d say, “You don’t understand. We’re the ones who are getting
married.”
And I would say, “No, you’re wrong. You’re very, very wrong. You are not
only getting married but all of us are getting remarried.”
You know what it does to me when I sit there in the congregation and
watch a couple getting married? He says, “I, John, take thee, Mary, to
be my lawful wedded wife, and I do promise and covenant before God and
these witnesses ...” Do you know what’s going on in my mind? I go back
in time. More than twenty-five years I go back and I can hear myself
saying it, “I, Anthony, take thee, Margaret, to be my lawful wedded wife
and I do promise and covenant...”
Do you see what ritual does? It takes something that happened a long
time ago and makes it contemporaneous. We need our rituals.
And people of God, you need more than rituals to be a Christian. Jesus
not only wants to remind you that he died on the cross for you, Jesus
not only wants rituals that remind you that his body was broken and his
blood was shed, Jesus wants to inspire you with visions and dreams. If
there is anything that Jesus wants to do for you and to you tonight, it
is this: it is to rekindle a dream and a vision. God has a wonderful
plan for your life. God has a vision of what you can be. God has a dream
of what you can become. And he wants you to experience that vision and
that dream. He wants you to see the possibilities that are inherent in
your life.
Many of us feel guilty over the things that we did that we should not
have done. I tell you there is something that is even more deserving of
guilt. It’s failing to become all that God wants you to become, failing
to be all that Jesus wants you to be, failing to achieve what Jesus has
called you to achieve. When God called you and placed you here on this
planet, it was because he had something very special for you to do.
I remember one time in my life promising God that I would do the things
that he wanted me to do, that I would be the person he wanted me to be,
I would go to the places he wanted me to go. I wouldn’t let anything
deter me from realizing the dreams and the visions that he had for me.
Perhaps you are like that. Most of us have those times, but then we blot
them out, and we allow the world to seduce us into its normative
patterns, and we lose the vision that God had for us. We set aside the
dream that he had.
I don’t know when it happened to you. I’m Baptist. We have revival
meetings. We are always coming down the aisle, and it was always
happening to me at the altar. I don’t know if you’re Baptist. We’re
people who are into those kinds of things: a thousand verses of “Just As
I Am”, you come down just as you are and go out just as you were in a
lot of cases. But we were in to that kind of thing.
Perhaps it happened to you on top of a mountain. I mean, if you are
Presbyterian, you’re big on mountain-top experiences because
Presbyterians don’t have any retreats or revivals. They have summer
Bible-conferences and they get you on top of a mountain and they sing a
hundred thousand verses of “Kumbaya.” That’s their thing. And they
really get into that.
But you get moved at those meetings, don’t you? And you begin to cry and
you say, “God, I promise you I’m going to be what you want me to be, I’m
going to do what you want me to do, I’m going to live like you want me
to live.” Remember once when you promised God that you were going to be
everything he expected of you? You were going to do everything he
required of you. You were going to live the life that he wanted you to
live.
God has great things for you and great things for me, and nothing is
more sinful than to fail to live up to the great things that God has
called us to do, and to be, for him and for his kingdom.
You know, I get to a lot of college campuses. And sometimes the students
depress me, particularly the students in the 80s. They have lost their
dreams. It’s not like in the 60s. You ask, “Did you like teaching in the
60s?” I loved teaching in the 60s! You never had to prepare a lecture.
You walked into the classroom and said, “Hi,” and they fought with you
for twenty minutes. They would say, “Why are you using this sexist
language?” And I would say, “I only said ‘Hi’.”
And they would say, “Yes, but it was the tone and the manner of
oppression that was in it.” I would die. But they were great. The
students of the 60s were great. They were visionaries. They were going
to end racism, and sexism, and militarism, and poverty. They were going
to create Utopia, and they were going to do it tomorrow morning.
And you say, “Isn’t it good that we got beyond all that stuff?”
No sirree, it’s not good at all. Because the Bible says that when the
young men no longer have their visions and the old men no longer have
their dreams, the people perish. And there is a perishing in the world
today. I go to the classes and I pour out my heart and every nerve and
sinew tingle with the excitement of God, and after I pour out my heart
and share my truth gleaned from existential suffering, some klutz in the
last row raises his hand and says, “Do we have to know this for the
final?” And I die a little bit. And I wonder what happened to the
dreams, what happened to the visions, what happened to that great hulk
of humanity. I worry about kids today.
I was speaking at a school in the midwest and there was a negative
response in the audience. And we started questions and answers and at
one point I grew angry with the crowd and I said, “You know, you scare
me. You young people scare me. You’re twenty-one and I’m almost fifty,
and I’m younger than you are because a person is as young as his dreams
and as old as his cynicism.” I will never forgive this generation for
being so disinterested that they had to take Star Trek off the air. I
mean I loved that great ship Enterprise taking off into outer space with
Spock, and Kirk, and Sulu, and all the menagerie of wierdos, and a voice
would come in and say, “Challenged to boldly go where no man has ever
gone before.” Oh, that’s great. And I get scared when I look at people
who don’t want to do the great things that God has called them to do,
the great things that God has called them to be, unwilling to go where
God has called them to go. Instead of going where no one has ever boldly
gone before, they settle for the mundane.
I was in New York and I went to see “The Man from La Mancha”. 1 was
sitting there see, and the woman next to me started yelling at her
husband, “John, stop it, stop it. You’re exposing yourself. You’re
exposing yourself.”
You know, I leaned forward. I wanted to see what was going on. And
sitting next to me was this guy crying his eyes out. And I knew why he
was crying. He was crying because Don Quixote was singing:
To dream the impossible dream,
To fight the unbeatable foe,
To strive with your last ounce of courage,
To go where the brave dare not go.
And the world will be richer for this,
That one man bruised and covered with scars,
Still strove with his last ounce of courage,
To reach the unreachable star.
People, rituals are fine, where you have come from is OK, and I think we
need the traditions that rivet us to the past, but more important is
knowing where we are going, knowing what our future is. That is why I
believe in a thing that we call “conversion.” Conversion says, “Look, we
don’t care where you come from. We’re more concerned where you’re
going.” So many people who are into counseling, ruin people because they
think that all we have to do to understand who a person is and what a
person is, is to understand where that person has come from and the
experiences of his background as though your background is the most
important thing about you.
I’m here to declare the good news of the gospel. Your past can be
blotted out. Your past can be forgiven. Jesus is a God of new beginnings
and he wants to say to you here and now, “I have something special for
you to be, something special for you to become, I have a whole new
future in store for you. I don’t want to know where you have come from —
I want to know where you are going.”
Listen to what the Bible says about the past, “Forget those things which
are behind. Press towards the goal of the high calling of God in Christ
Jesus, our Lord.”
There’s a lot wrong in your past. There’s a lot wrong in my past. I mean
if you knew what there was to know about me, you would turn off the set
right now. You would not listen to me. If I knew what there was to know
about you, I wouldn’t be talking to you. Let’s get this straight.
Whenever somebody says, “You’re supposed to be a Christian. I know
non-Christians who are better than you.” Of course, so do I. But if that
person is so wonderful without Jesus, can you imagine how much more
wonderful he would be with Jesus. And if you think I’m so rotten with
Jesus, can you imagine what I would be like without Jesus? People, you
don’t understand me unless you understand where I am going, what God has
called me to be, what God has called me to become, and what God has for
me — he has for you.
He wants to speak to you today and he wants to make you a hero for his
kingdom. He has something beautiful and something wonderful and
something special to achieve through you. The call of God is to become a
hero. Only humans can become heroes, because to be a hero you have to be
able to fail. And failure is not the worst thing because God has a way
of turning our failures into victories. The cross looked like a failure,
but the resurrection turned it all around.
I can’t wait until I go to be with God. I can’t wait until I get to
heaven. I’m going to walk through the gates and there will be the
angels. And I’m going to say, “Get out of my way, angels. You’re only
messengers. You don’t know what it’s like to be a hero for God and to do
the great things he calls one to do. Move aside, angels. You’re
messengers. Go get me a hamburger.”
And I’m going to go up to the throne of grace and say, “Michael, move
aside. I want to sit down next to my Jesus because my Jesus and I are
going to talk about the great things he has called me to do and be.”
Listen to me carefully. Listen to me well. Anything can happen. Anything
can be. Don’t listen to anyone who says that you can’t become a new
person because here’s the good news. There is a Jesus who died for you
in the past to take away your sins and to make you into a new person.
And that Jesus comes to you here and now and inspires you with great
dreams and great visions of what you can become. Don’t lose your dreams.
Don’t lose your visions. Remember what you once promised God you were
going to do. Remember what you once promised God you were going to be.
Be it! Do it! Jesus wants to come in and enable you to do it today. You
say, “I’m too old.” Well, Abraham was 94 years old when he got his
vision and he changed the world. God really wants to do something
special in you and through you. He has some special work for you to do.
He has some mission for you to complete. He has some ministry for you to
render. A heroic thing is waiting to be done.
Let God speak to you. Let God inspire you. If you’re young, have
visions. If you’re old, have dreams. For without visions and dreams,
people perish. Amen.
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